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In The World Of Betrayal: Be Faithful.

  • Writer: Apostle Desmond Oladimeji
    Apostle Desmond Oladimeji
  • 3 days ago
  • 3 min read

“For it was not an enemy who insulted me, then I could have endured it. Neither was it he who hated me who raised himself up against me, then I would have hid myself from him. But it was you, a man like me, my companion, and my familiar friend. We took sweet fellowship together. We walked in God’s house with company.” Psa. 55:12-14.


No treachery is worse than betrayal by a family member or friend. Julius Caesar knew such treachery. Among the conspirators who assassinated the Roman leader on March 15, 44 BC. The conspirators felt that Caesar was acting like a king, threatening the traditional Republican structure of Rome. Ironically, many of them had been previously pardoned and appointed to high office by Caesar. The conspirators claimed to be saving the Republic, but the betrayal was followed by civil wars. 

Amongst the conspirators was Marcus Junius Brutus. Caesar not only trusted Brutus, he had favored him as a son. According to Roman historians, Caesar first resisted the onslaught of the assassins. But when he saw Brutus among them with his dagger drawn, Caesar ceased to struggle and, pulling the top part of his robe over his face, he asked the famous question, "You too, Brutus?"


When betrayed, the natural inclination is to retaliate, but Scripture instructs believers to leave room for divine justice. Romans 12:19 commands, "Never take revenge... 'I will take revenge; I will pay them back,' says the Lord". This approach frees the victim to heal, trusting that God sees the treachery and will handle it in His timing. Instead of retaliating, the Bible encourages bringing the emotional turmoil of betrayal directly to God, treating Him as a refuge. David modeled this in Psalm 55:1-2, where he cried out to God to hear his complaint when overwhelmed by a close friend’s betrayal. This process allows for honest expression of anger and pain without sinning. 


Rather than allowing betrayal to turn your heart bitter, believers are called to maintain their character by responding to evil with good. Romans 12:21 advises, "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good". Jesus modeled this by continuing to treat Judas with love and washing his feet, even knowing of the impending betrayal. I know you may be losing your composure reading this, it's important you learn the lessons to be learnt, it's important you don't submit yourself to be ill-treated again, it's important you don't allow unnecessary familiarity with the same person who betrayed you. Irrespective, never lose touch with the fact that you remain a believer, the tenet of the scriptures must remain your standard no matter what. Never allow yourself into a vile and bitter person who can't hear and obey God again. Selah!



FURTHER READING:


“And you will be hated by everyone because of my name. But not a hair of your head will perish.” Luke. 21:17-18.

“Even my own close friend, in whom I trusted, who ate my bread, has lifted up his heel against me.” Psa. 41:9. 


DECLARATION: 


Dear Abba Father, I thank You for the gift of life and the privilege of salvation. Lord, I come before You in the name of Jesus, asking for Your divine intervention against every treacherous plan and hidden conspiracy targeted at my life, reputation, and destiny. Lord, You see the hearts of men, even those who smile in my face while harboring malice. I ask that You expose every 'Judas' in my circle and scatter their evil plans. I decree that no weapon formed against me, whether by a friend or foe, shall prosper and let them fall into the traps they have set for me. In Jesus' name, Amen." 


1 YEAR BIBLE READING PLAN:


1 Chron. 6:1-81.

1 Chron. 7:1-40.

1 Chron. 8:1-40.


QUOTE FOR THE DAY:


“The Fire Set By The Treacherous And Betrayals End Up Consuming Them, Don't Do It.”

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