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Overcoming Bad Habits.

  • Writer: Apostle Desmond Oladimeji
    Apostle Desmond Oladimeji
  • 12 minutes ago
  • 3 min read

"He who conceals his sins will not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them will find mercy" Prov. 28:13.


Many years ago a lawyer visited a Christian to transact some business. Before the two parted, his client said to him, “I’ve often wanted to ask you a question, but I’ve been afraid to do so.” “What do you want to know?” asked the lawyer. The man replied, “I’ve wondered why you’re not a Christian.” The man hung his head, “I know enough about the Bible to realize that it says no drunkard can enter the kingdom of God; and you know my weakness!” “You’re avoiding my questions,” continued the believer. “Well, truthfully, I can’t recall anyone ever explaining how to become a Christian.” Picking up a Bible, the client read some passages showing that all are under condemnation, but that Christ came to save the lost by dying on the cross for their sins. “By receiving Him as your Substitute and Redeemer,” he said, “you can be forgiven. If you’re willing to receive Jesus, let’s pray together.”


The lawyer agreed, and when it was his turn he exclaimed, “O Jesus, I am a slave to drink. One of your servants has shown me how to be saved. O God, forgive my sins and help me overcome the power of this terrible habit in my life.” Right there he was converted.

That lawyer was C. I. Scofield, who later edited the reference Bible that bears his name. That Christian didn't just win a soul, he won someone who was a general in the making. Trusting God to break negative habits involves shifting from reliance on willpower to relying on divine strength, focusing on spiritual transformation rather than just behavior modification. Trusting God begins by acknowledging you cannot break the habit alone and turning your struggle over to God. You must openly confess the habit to God, admitting your need for His power and asking for forgiveness, which breaks the power of shame.


Negative habits are often fueled by lies you believe about yourself or the world. You must replace these lies with God's truth. Identify the lies behind the habit and counteract them by meditating on scripture. Replace negative thoughts by "taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ"  2 Cor.10:5. Transformation is a result of renewing your mind, not just changing your actions. Rely on the Holy Spirit's Strength. Instead of relying on human willpower, trust that God is providing the strength you need in the moment of temptation. When tempted, turn to God immediately in prayer, asking for His grace and strength, rather than fighting with your own power. Habits are best broken by replacing the negative action with a godly, constructive action, rather than simply trying to stop. Plan healthy alternatives for when you are tempted. If a habit is used to relieve stress, replace it with prayer, exercise, or fellowship. Selah!



FURTHER READING:


 "I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength" Phil. 4:13.


"That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts; And be renewed in the spirit of your mind; And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.” Eph. 4:22-24.


DECLARATION: 


Dear Abba Father, I thank You for the gift of life and the privilege of salvation. Lord, Your Word says that where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. I ask for that freedom now. Ignite in me a fire and passion for Jesus, that my desire for You outweighs my desire for negative habits. Holy Spirit, strengthen my inner self with Your power. Help me to walk in the Spirit so that I will not fulfill the lusts of the flesh. Renew my mind, take over my will, and grant me the fruit of self-control. I trust that You are greater than any addiction or habit attempting to destroy my life. In Jesus’ Name, I am set free. Amen."


1 YEAR BIBLE READING PLAN:


2 Chron. 13:1-22.

2 Chron. 14:1-15.

2 Chron. 15:1-19.


QUOTE FOR THE DAY:


“Don't Postpone Till Tomorrow What You Can Change Today. Bad Habits Are Better Broken Today Than Tomorrow.”

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