Exposing The Fault Finding Spirit.
- Apostle Desmond Oladimeji

- 37 minutes ago
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"But if you bite and devour one another, take care that you are not consumed by one another." Gal. 5:15.
Once, in a small village, lived a sculptor named Julian who was known for his incredible skill. However, he was also known as the town's most relentless fault-finder. He never complimented anyone’s work, always pointing out the tiniest imperfections, such as a microscopic chip in a vase or a misplaced brick in a wall. One day, the village decided to build a new community center. Everyone contributed, but Julian spent the entire time walking around, complaining about how others were mixing the cement or hanging the doors, claiming they were doing it all wrong. Because Julian was more of a professional fault finder, he was so busy looking for faults in others, he ignored the fact that his own chisel had become blunt, and his own workshop was falling into disrepair.
He believed he was helping, but he was actually just criticizing, which resulted in a toxic environment where people stopped enjoying their work and began to dread his presence. Eventually, the community center was completed. Instead of inviting Julian, the villagers held a celebration without him. They felt that Julian’s constant negativity, or "cancerous words," had ruined the joy of the project. Jesus warns that the strictness you apply to others will be used against you by God. Fault-finding is often driven by pride and a sense of superiority, yet the Bible states that those who judge are often guilty of the same things. "For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you." (Matt. 7:2) Jesus uses the metaphor of a speck in a brother’s eye compared to a plank in one's own eye to explain that fault-finders often ignore their own major flaws while attacking minor issues in others. Addressing your own spiritual condition is meant to take priority over correcting others.
Fault-finding damages relationships and creates disharmony within the church and community. It is a form of negative behaviour that tears down rather than builds up, often acting as a "destructive" force rather than a corrective one. Fault-finders are described as acting similarly to Satan, who is known as the "accuser of the brethren," whereas Christians are called to encourage one another and restore others in love. Love requires overlooking offences rather than constantly pointing them out. "Love suffers long and is kind... love does not parade itself, is not puffed up... thinks no evil." 1 Cor.13:4-5.Fault-finding is a subtle sin that damages relationships, hinders our walk with God, and focuses on the mistakes of others while ignoring our own. It stems from a critical heart, you must guide against it in your home, your life and family. selah!

FURTHER READING:
"Whoever belittles his neighbor lacks sense, but a man of understanding remains silent" Prov. 11:12.
“Brothers and sisters, if a person is discovered in some sin, you who are spiritual restore such a person in a spirit of gentleness. Pay close attention to yourselves, so that you are not tempted too.” Gal. 6:1.
DECLARATION:
Dear Abba Father, I thank You for the gift of life and the privilege of salvation. I come before You acknowledging that I often fall into the trap of being a fault-finder. My eyes are quick to see blemishes, shortcomings, and errors—both in others and in myself. I confess that this critical spirit steals my joy and blinds me to Your grace. Today, I ask for a transformation of my heart and mind. Please heal my eyes to see the divinity, potential, and beauty You have placed in everyone. Replace my judgmental spirit with a spirit of admiration. Give me the grace to overlook minor flaws and to celebrate the noble things within others in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.
1 YEAR BIBLE READING PLAN:
Neh. 12:1-47.
Neh. 13:1-31.
Esther. 1:1-22.
QUOTE FOR THE DAY:
“Quit Finding Faults Alone And Start Finding Cures Too.”




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