Make Kindness The Norm.

“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” Eph. 4:32. Esv.

We live in a very difficult generation. Selfish and self centeredness is so commonplace in our generation such that you find it everywhere. I strongly believe that one act of kindness can go a long way to restore lives and help people overcome some of the trauma they deal with. I read about Abraham Lincoln. Once in a while, when he dined in the White House one of his guests blew on his coffee, poured it into his saucer, and drank from it. As you might imagine, some of the refined ladies and gentlemen seated nearby were aghast, and for a moment the room was filled with an embarrassed silence. Then Lincoln took his coffee, poured it into his saucer, and for the rest of the evening drank directly from it. And you know what? Everyone else in the room followed suit! One small act of kindness saved a White House guest unbelievable embarrassment. And that simple but thoughtful gesture by one of America’s greatest presidents reminds us of the value of setting an example of kindness.

You must make it a point of duty to become kind irrespective of what anyone may have done to you. I know many who may be reading now who have justified reasons to be callous so they think anyways, but I must tell you the truth, there can't be any justifiable reason to be heartless. Irrespective of betrayals, disappointments, treachery etc. You may choose to become careful, more discreet with your act of kindness, and never become callous. Learning to be naturally kind involves shifting from calculated, "nice" behavior to an authentic, internally driven desire to care for oneself and others. While some kindness is innate, it can be developed into a natural, consistent response through practice, self-compassion, and conscious habit formation. 

You cannot authentically extend kindness to others if you are harsh with yourself. Practice self-kindness by acknowledging your worth, accepting mistakes as part of being human, and replacing negative self-talk with an encouraging inner voice. You must shift from Nice mode to kind mode. What is the difference, "Nice" is often motivated by a desire for approval or to avoid conflict, while true kindness is about acting with love, even when it is difficult. You should be better present and aware, being present and aware allows you to see opportunities for kindness that you might otherwise miss. Mindfulness helps you pause before reacting, letting you choose compassion over frustration. I believe this is doable as you make practice of this teaching continually, God bless you.

FURTHER READING:

“So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith.” Gal. 6:10.

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness.” Gal. 5:22.

DECLARATION: 

Dear Abba Father, I thank You for the gift of life and the privilege of salvation. Father, I confess that kindness does not always come naturally to me, especially when I am tired, stressed, or dealing with difficult people. I need your help to choose it intentionally. Teach me that kindness is more than just being nice; it is actively seeking someone's good, noticing needs, and offering grace when judgment would be easier. Help me to slow down and see people not as interruptions, but as divine appointments. In Jesus’ name, Amen". 

1 YEAR BIBLE READING PLAN:

Num. 2:1-22.

Num. 3:1-35.

Num. 4:1-27.

QUOTE FOR THE DAY:

“The Same Reason You Found To Be Callous Someone Else Found To Be Kind.”